She hated him ... but when she was drunk i saw her smiling ... seeing him again … an article written by the wellknown romanian writer Adrian Dumitru
She hated him ... but when she was drunk i saw her smiling ... seeing him again … an article written by the wellknown romanian writer Adrian Dumitru
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There is a nice saying … “In vino veritas” … and i’ve always thought about it.
Translation means … that in the wine we’ll find the truth.
Or better said … while drinking we’ll say the truth …. of what we really believe.
And … i smile, cause i saw that many times.
At many people.
But also … at myself.
Recently … i’ve had the chance to see again a weird story.
Daniel … and Ashley.
Somehow … a paradox.
You see …. we all worked together.
… by more than 3–4 years.
So … i’ve had the chance to see how they acted many times.
And … realised that she was always weird with him.
Somehow hating him … for the simple reason that he existed on the stage of her life.
But … no matter what … Daniel was always acting nicely with her.
In fact … i believe that he liked her so much … that he could
not do that.
Never.
The funny thing is that at the first party we’ve been … seeing her a little bit drunk … I’ve suddenly realised that he was smiling to him.
Somehow … obviously flirting ….
I could not believe it.
So … I’ve treated all as an accident.
But 2 months later … we’ve been into a trip of 3 days.
Ashley was with her husband.
Daniel was with his wife.
The same thing happened again.
This time … i saw her being drunk everyday.
Yes…
And …. she was always looking at him …. smiling.
But … Monday morning … we go to work … and i see her again acting so, so stupid with him.
Ironically … i’ve asked her … “Are you in love him …. or actually hate him?!”
100% she was very annoyed of my question.
I’ve not even said it is about …. Daniel … and she almost wanted to kill me.
So … Ashley was revealing her love for him … only when she could not control herself anymore.
… being under the influence of alcohol.
A clear example of the expression … in vino veritas.
From that day …. I was smiling ironically each time when i was seeing her.
One day … she stopped me … saying “I’ve been thinking …
and maybe it’s true. But i am married … and he’s married too.”
Smiling ….i’ve replied …
“But being married … is not a handicap.
And … i’ve also noticed that each time when you drink … you smile.
By the way … do you know that you never smile?!
… and i know you for years.
Also … that smile … makes you have the look of a princess.
So … do it more often.
Yes … drink more.”
We’ve … both … started to laugh.
Then … i’ve also said … “Or become more conscious of all is going on when you drink.
I mean … what you express into those moments.
And …. why you do it.”
It was maybe the first and last time when i chatted with her … but i found it weird … that being so in love with him … she acted in fact … like a person hating him … to death.
Most certainly … they had a connection.
Maybe … from another life.
But … was not properly … expressed.
… like in many, many other stories.
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